This blog series is based off of the book, His Needs Her Needs. The#3 need of the average man is an Attractive Spouse. This may mean weight management or putting effort into how you present yourself, like when you were first dating.
The healthy habits can easily be replaced with inactivity that leads to weight gain. The demanding needs of child-rearing can put physical appearance low on a wife’s priority list.
Be your Husband’s Eye Candy – when a wife looks good, the husband feels good. Attractiveness is working what you got and feeling good doing it. When wives don’t feel pretty or they feel self-conscious about their bodies, they don’t want to have sex. Husbands want wives to care about being visually stimulating to him. Visual stimulation will lead to getting His #1 Need met, sexual fulfillment.
For me, that means I wear sundresses because my husband loves how I look in them and to keep my hair curly. It can be so easy to “let myself go” by not watching what I eat or hanging out in comfy sweats for too many days in a row. When I take care of myself, I benefit, my husband benefits, our marriage benefits. I want to be my husband’s sweetest eye candy.
Reflect & Share: What do you do to stay “physically attractive” to your partner?
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